Taiwanese girl reveals her passionate no strings attached life - Part 2/2

Thursday, 17 December 2009 16:10

Going to bed with guys she barely knew, Sue doesn’t feel that it’s a bad thing, she believes she is not a sex addict, she doesn’t have a special feeling for or dislike for sex. To her, sex is part of the night life fun, “when you want to really be in the moment, when you feel good, you want to keep playing, and when you play for a long time, you want to rest, or, you want to have a nice ending.”

Sue is not the prettiest girl, but she moves and speaks with sensuality. She normally doesn’t speak much, she likes to wink and smile, and in the club, she acts just seductive enough, and with her large breasts and white skin, she gets a lot of attention. Sue had plenty of one night stand experience, but she also have 2 or 3 closer friends with benefits, or fuck buddies, sexual partners. She has a lot of suitors, but no boyfriend now.

“Because I don’t want too much emotion or romance, and I am a girl that is not too serious about it. Most of those that try to chase me, finds that after being together, we will drift apart, but it’s ok, usually there will be someone new.” Isn’t it good to fall in love though? “Most girls that seek true romance, all want to grab onto a floating wood so they can reach the shore.” The party queen, Sue, was hurt by past relationships.

As the night gets late, most of the men and women form couples, and she only goes out with guys with cars, she will play and get wild, but still afraid to get tangled up in relationships.

Rather be third

“My boyfriend was 12 years older, during my first year of high school in a baseball game, he came over to hit on me and that’s how we met. Before him I had just crushes and puppy love. Being with him is like a lost child in the world of adults, I was lost. For my birthday he prepared 3 gifts in different stories of the department store. I had to go find them myself, a Coach bag, Gucci keyring, and a necklace.”

Sue’s ex-boyfriend is the generous type, and treats her like a princess, she knows he had another girlfriend for many years at the same time, but she still stayed, knowing she’s a mistress. “Now I think about it, perhaps it was for fame or money, and worship. I used to be shy and studious, after knowing him, I even moved in with him for a bit. My parents were so disappointed, and my classmates thought I was crazy, haha.”

“However, later on he got another girlfriend, and the girl was one I was so close with back in high school, now it’s a relationship involving four people. High school final year, I could not take it anymore, broke up with him, and right after, I heard he was going to marry his long term girlfriend. I really felt used...” I do not know how I pretended to get through all this, but she was grateful that she had that experience.

After arriving at Taipei, the metropolis, Sue had changed. She loved the nightlife, she always wore a sparkling bra. “It is the basic tool for playing the night game,” said Sue.

I never fall in love

“During the love quadrangle, my love was pure and innocent, but because of that, I was also hurt the most. That taught me important lessons, and I never will be in that position again. I love getting chased, and also knowing how to read the minds and being playful is so important. Before it was my best girlfriend asking my ex-boyfriend out to eat and purposely asking him to help her with something. She basically seduced him...” Sue said, “I was so mad at the other girl, but now I know it is how other girls play the game.”

“I don’t have a boyfriend, but I feel very fulfilled and happy. I am studying, I can meet my older friends, go out with my current classmates, and I can also go out with those boys that are chasing me.” Sue loves to travel, “eat, drink, travel I never spend a dime, I just play responsibly.” After just hanging out with her for a few days, for someone that does not have a boyfriend, “I am honest about my lust, I am by myself I don’t hurt others, but sometimes I still feel other people see me as someone that’s irresponsible,” she admits.

Sue had lived this lifestyle for two years, so did she ever make a mistake? “Mistake means falling in love with a boy you are playing with, I can never make this mistake, if you do it will never come out good.” Sue said, “of course I will continue to live this lifestyle, I’m young, and it is not time to be serious yet. Maybe in three to five years I will settle down.”

One of Sue’s top mantra is, “you can make out in the dark corner, but never do it in the club.”

Sue’s nightlife rules

• 1) Flashy bra and short skirt or shorts is the basics. No matter how good your body is, if you wear one more, nobody will look at you. The uglier girls as long as they wear it right, there will people hitting on you.
• 2) Do not get drunk, you feel sick, cannot enjoy the rest of the night and start problems.
• 3) You must be willing to play, do not waste or lead others on if not willing to play.
• 4) Do not ask anything too personal, especially if he has a girlfriend, if you ask nobody will say yes.
• 5) Make sure to find out what the girls in each night club is like, so you can stand out in that crowd.
• 6) Only go with guys that have a car, anything else ditch right away.

Sue has no boyfriend now, and never has time to deal with the lot of guys chasing her, she mostly keeps in contact with them using text messages on her phone.